11 comments on “Spanking for Love

  1. Dear all
    I love the aquarboreal theory. Could somebody elaborate the tail loss subject ? Was it an adaptation for keeping body temprature ? Was it a degeneration? Something different?

  2. Maybe it was so the tail wouldn’t get in the way of a good spanking. Just kidding, Ada. Maybe you’d like to carry this conversation over to one of the aquatic ape posts?


  3. Sounds bizarre to me! Lording over anyone is just wrong! Where does personal development begin and end when one person does all the controlling?

  4. me and my finace practice domestic dicsipline. it works well for us. he spanks me when i am bad and this makes me happy because it stops my behavior and negativity from getting out of control. it is not about hitting or being a dictator. he is very respectful and i make lots of dessions and am very involved in his desions. he spanks me because he loves me and dosnt want me doiong anything to hurt myself, our relationship, or others. i am a indepentent girl but we follow more traditional gender roles. i understand this is weird to some people and not right for them. but i think calling it sick, or horrible or anything like that is a bit mean. difrent people chose difernt life choises. you shouldnt be mean because people are difrent or do diferent things from you. people have diferent hobbies, diferent religions, diferent methods of parenting, and diferent relationship styles. it is also worth pointing out that the point of the femanisum movment was to get equality and to give us the right to chose. in my opinion it is still sexist to say less of a woman for chosing the “wrong” choice. we wanted the option to do everything men do. not the obligation. men do not have to go to work. if they want to stay at home with the kids people say that is great. but if a woman does they think she is being less of a real woman. some people would like to keep traditional family values and have the man as the hoh (head of household) and for some couples that includes spakning. it makes there life easyier and theyre relationship happier. because it elimanates the power strugle theyre are not as many fights. think how nice it would be to when fighting begins for one parter to just stop it insted of it continuing for hours on end. i have learned so much about myself from my hoh’s firm and loving guidence. and i am trying to becoming a better person for it. i have had many issues and he is helping me move threw them and get better. im not trying to be mean or disrespectful to anyone on this form. (my hoh wouldnt let me anyway lol) im just saying my two cents on the matter and trying to convey that everyone is difrent and that its not very nice to say anyone way of doing things is “wrong” also thought if i could shed some light on the matter we wouldnt creep you guys out so much. 😛 ttyl. love you all. <3 🙂

  5. Thank you for your comment, Anonymous. You’ve given me something to think about. I admit, it still feels alien to me. I can’t imagine treating my beloved like a subordinate. If that’s what you prefer, though, then that’s what you should have.

    Thank you again.


  6. thank you for your understanding. my hoh told me people might get mad. i was glad you did not. 🙂

  7. You’re welcome, Anonymous. And welcome back any time.

    While you were here, did you download the book, Green Comet? It’s an adventure/love story in a very exotic location.-) If you decide to read it, some people have said the first few chapters were a little confusing, but it all came clear by the end.

    It’s a free download, so give it a go, and let me know what you think.


    • I still balk at the concept of being lorded over, but each one of us must do what works best for ourselves. None of us can live in the others’ shoes.

  8. is there any sexual content in it? because of m religion im not alowed to read erotic things at least until marrige (after marrige im not sure if i can or not). if not tho i would deffently like to read. 🙂

    • There is no explicit sex. I wanted the story to be readable by anyone. Speaking of which, you have the option of having the book read to you. I recorded it so people could have the option of listening as well as reading.


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