Spanking for Love

Spanking Paddle

Spanking Paddle

I had a hard time with this. I found it so bizarre that I thought it must be a hoax or a parody. But I went to the Learning Domestic Discipline website and found it to be so earnest and sincere that I had to accept its reality. There actually is something called Christian Domestic Discipline and it really does recommend that men hit their wives. It even has a blog, complete with a section on the Women’s Perspective, to explain and justify it. In addition it has:

Corner Time

Corner Time

Punishment One: Corner Time

“Within a Domestic Discipline marriage, there are several different types of punishments that can be administered, most of which are pretty straight forward. I plan on going into elaborate detail with each one, and we’ll start with one of the most basic punishments – corner time (also referred to as a time out).”





Wife Crying

Wife Crying

The Importance of Crying

“I’ve always found it difficult to stress the importance of the wife crying at some point during the spanking process.”

Notice that it is assumed that the man will do the hitting and the woman will do the crying.


Maintenance Spankings

“Maintenance spankings provide a way for the husband to keep the wife on the right track, as well as provide a means for the wife to get an emotional release.”

She hasn’t broken the rules. He just needs to hit her to help her remember. “Emotional release?”


Punishing In Public – How To Handle It

“I regularly get asked how to handle the wife when she’s acting out in a public setting.”


Head of the Household (HoH)

The man, of course.

Okay, I admit that this seems to be real. That people do this. That the victims go along with it. They have a PDF file (54 pages) for beginners, and they’ve even published an ebook. I still find it bizarre, though.

All photos credit the Learning Domestic Discipline website.


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Jim has fought forest fires and controlled traffic in the air and on the sea. Now he writes stories.
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11 Responses to Spanking for Love

  1. emmylgant says:

    Disgusting. Just appaling.

  2. Ada says:

    Dear all
    I love the aquarboreal theory. Could somebody elaborate the tail loss subject ? Was it an adaptation for keeping body temprature ? Was it a degeneration? Something different?

  3. arjaybe says:

    Maybe it was so the tail wouldn’t get in the way of a good spanking. Just kidding, Ada. Maybe you’d like to carry this conversation over to one of the aquatic ape posts?


  4. Laitd Smith says:

    Sounds bizarre to me! Lording over anyone is just wrong! Where does personal development begin and end when one person does all the controlling?

  5. Anonymous says:

    me and my finace practice domestic dicsipline. it works well for us. he spanks me when i am bad and this makes me happy because it stops my behavior and negativity from getting out of control. it is not about hitting or being a dictator. he is very respectful and i make lots of dessions and am very involved in his desions. he spanks me because he loves me and dosnt want me doiong anything to hurt myself, our relationship, or others. i am a indepentent girl but we follow more traditional gender roles. i understand this is weird to some people and not right for them. but i think calling it sick, or horrible or anything like that is a bit mean. difrent people chose difernt life choises. you shouldnt be mean because people are difrent or do diferent things from you. people have diferent hobbies, diferent religions, diferent methods of parenting, and diferent relationship styles. it is also worth pointing out that the point of the femanisum movment was to get equality and to give us the right to chose. in my opinion it is still sexist to say less of a woman for chosing the “wrong” choice. we wanted the option to do everything men do. not the obligation. men do not have to go to work. if they want to stay at home with the kids people say that is great. but if a woman does they think she is being less of a real woman. some people would like to keep traditional family values and have the man as the hoh (head of household) and for some couples that includes spakning. it makes there life easyier and theyre relationship happier. because it elimanates the power strugle theyre are not as many fights. think how nice it would be to when fighting begins for one parter to just stop it insted of it continuing for hours on end. i have learned so much about myself from my hoh’s firm and loving guidence. and i am trying to becoming a better person for it. i have had many issues and he is helping me move threw them and get better. im not trying to be mean or disrespectful to anyone on this form. (my hoh wouldnt let me anyway lol) im just saying my two cents on the matter and trying to convey that everyone is difrent and that its not very nice to say anyone way of doing things is “wrong” also thought if i could shed some light on the matter we wouldnt creep you guys out so much. 😛 ttyl. love you all. <3 🙂

  6. arjaybe says:

    Thank you for your comment, Anonymous. You’ve given me something to think about. I admit, it still feels alien to me. I can’t imagine treating my beloved like a subordinate. If that’s what you prefer, though, then that’s what you should have.

    Thank you again.


  7. Anonymous says:

    thank you for your understanding. my hoh told me people might get mad. i was glad you did not. 🙂

  8. arjaybe says:

    You’re welcome, Anonymous. And welcome back any time.

    While you were here, did you download the book, Green Comet? It’s an adventure/love story in a very exotic location.-) If you decide to read it, some people have said the first few chapters were a little confusing, but it all came clear by the end.

    It’s a free download, so give it a go, and let me know what you think.


    • Laird Smith says:

      I still balk at the concept of being lorded over, but each one of us must do what works best for ourselves. None of us can live in the others’ shoes.

  9. Anonymous says:

    is there any sexual content in it? because of m religion im not alowed to read erotic things at least until marrige (after marrige im not sure if i can or not). if not tho i would deffently like to read. 🙂

    • arjaybe says:

      There is no explicit sex. I wanted the story to be readable by anyone. Speaking of which, you have the option of having the book read to you. I recorded it so people could have the option of listening as well as reading.


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